Taylor Swift drew inspiration from Ethel Kennedy and Robert F. Kennedy’s romance for one of her dreamiest songs.
Ethel died on Thursday at the age of 96. The Kennedy family matriarch, who was widowed in 1969 when her husband “Bobby” was assassinated, passed away just days after suffering a stroke.
In the wake of Ethel’s death, fans of Swift, 34, resurfaced interviews and clips in which the singer discussed how the civil rights activist’s love story with Bobby inspired a song off her album “Red,” titled “Starlight.”
“I get a lot of style inspiration from the 1960s, so I’ll go and look at black and white pictures, and look at [photos from the] ’50s and ’60s, and I came across this picture of these two kids dancing at a dance,” Swift told The Wall Street Journal in 2012. As it happens, the head of The Tortured Poets Department was dating Ethel’s grandson, Conor Kennedy, at the time.
Swift continued, “So I just kind of wrote that song from that place, not really knowing how they met or anything like that.”
Told from Ethel’s perspective, the song traces many of the same details of her and RFK’s romance.
“I met Bobby on the boardwalk, summer of ’45,” Swift sings. “Picked me up, late one night at the window / We were 17 and crazy, running wild, wild.”
Swift took a bit of artistic license with the lyrics — Ethel and Robert actually met in the winter of 1945, when Ethel was 17 and Bobby was 20.
“Ooh, ooh, he’s talking crazy / Ooh, ooh, dancing with me / Ooh, ooh, we could get married / Have 10 kids and teach ’em how to dream.”
Ethel and Bobby married in 1950 and had 11 children.
Swift also revealed to WSJ that Ethel’s youngest daughter, Rory Kennedy, attended one of her concerts before “Starlight” was released, and, after learning what the song was about, told Swift she wanted to introducer her to Ethel. “I told [Rory] about the song,” Swift said, “and she was like, ‘You have to meet my mom. She would love to meet you.’”
Swift did meet Ethel and even performed “Starlight” for her. “I ended up meeting Ethel and going and playing it for her and she just loved it,” Swift said. “It was such a fun moment when she was just in love with the song and so happy about it and um, it’s just this adorable picture that to me, it just, like, brought forth all these potentials for how that night could’ve been.”
In January 2012, Rory even invited the Grammy-winner to attend the premiere of her documentary about her mother, titled “Ethel,” at the Sundance Film Festival.
While promoting the doc, Ethel said of Swift, “She is amazing. She is such good company.”
“I just think she’s terrific and such a great role model for young girls as well as for all women really,” Rory added.
“She really took the initiative to reach out to meet my mother because she had read about her and was a fan and admired her, and they’ve spent some time together. So I really just called her up and said, ‘Do you wanna come to Sundance?’”
“And she didn’t really hesitate and was so excited to come,” Rory said.
Of Ethel’s relationship with Swift, Rory said, “I think there’s a mutual admiration society between my mother and Taylor Swift. And I just love it.”
“I think it says so much about Taylor that she has that ability to connect across generations to somebody like my mother,” Rory continued. “It’s great.”
Shortly after walking the red carpet at Sundance with Ethel, Swift spoke to Vogue about how much she admires her.
“The only time in my life I have ever been starstruck was meeting Caroline and Ethel Kennedy,” she said at the time. “I got to spend the afternoon with Ethel a couple of weeks ago. She is one of my favorites because you look back at the pictures of her and Bobby and they always look like they are having the most fun out of everybody. You know, eleven kids, all these exotic animals on their property. I’ve read a lot about them.”
Swift started dating Ethel’s grandson, Conor, in July of that year.
When asked in August 2012 what she thought about the possibility of Swift marrying into the Kennedy clan, Ethel remarked, “We should be so lucky.”
The singer and the Kennedy scion called it quits in October 2012, and though the relationship was short-lived, the magic spell that “Starlight” cast will last forever.
